Judging Favorably: The lesson we can learn from Aharon and Miriam
A well-known question asked about this week's parsha is, "What exactly was Miriam punished for?" Rashi shares that Miriam had commiserated with Tzipora, Moshe's wife, after Moshe had separated from her to grow closer to Hashem. It is an every day matter that we ask people we're close to about the behavior of others. "Do you think he did the right thing?" or perhaps, "How would you have acted in such a situated?" In essence, it can be said that Miriam was simply "bouncing something off of" Aharon, seeing what he had to say. But in essence, when we look at Hashem's response, we can infer that the conversation Aharon and Miriam had had, in of itself, was not the problem. Rather, the Torah itself interjects right after the verse about Aharon and Miriam's forbidden speech, "Now Moses was a very humble man, more so than any other man on earth." Thus, lies the secret, perhaps. Miriam was right to speak to Aharon, but her...