The Fight Against Cynicism
In a certain way, Yaakov's victory over Lavan was that of optimism over cynicism. Even from the get-go, there was a certain measure of jadedness on the part of Lavan and Betuel; having the good fortune to marry into the family, not only a prominent prince and an affluent man, they tell Eliezer who has come to seek a wife for Isaac, "It comes from God, even were we to want to reject your offer our hands would be tied and we could neither speak bad or good against you." That penchant to seeing things with an evil eye, with a less than happy and almost untrusting countenance permeated the very existence of Haran, Lavan's home. The shepherds didn't trust each other, and so an excessively large stone was placed on the mouth of the well to prevent anyone from taking too much of the scarce waters without the knowledge of the others. Yaakov responds in kind: "Where are you from?" In other words, why are your principles so faulty, to have convened at the well a...